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Tidying Up with Kids: Using Marie Kondo’s Method with Littles

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up

The famous book written by Marie Kondo has given hope and advice to many. Learning to think about what “sparks joy” in your life and what does not can definitely be life-changing. Netflix has helped bring this advice to life by hosting the “Tidying Up with Marie Kondo” show. Marie has been going into people’s homes and helping them experience the magic of tidying. The advice she gives seems like grand advice unless you have kids. You start wondering how you could possibly put any of this into effect with children running around. Is it possible?

Absolutely! Below are just a few ways in which Marie Kondo’s method can help parents.

Everything Needs a Home

Remember that old saying, “A place for everything and everything in its place”? One of Marie Kondo’s lessons is about how important this principle is, and I cannot agree with her enough. When kids are involved, it is even more important. I cannot tell you how many times misplaced items end up cluttering my desk, the dining room table, or the kitchen counters, all because my children do not know where they go. Making a place for everything and teaching your children where that place is will cut down on the clutter immensely.

Allow Your Children to Organize Their Own Space

Every person has their own style and preferences, including kids. If a parent forces their style on a child’s space, it probably will not stay that way. However, if the parent allows the child to participate in the organizational style, there is a higher likelihood of success. When I started allowing my daughters to help organize and decorate their own bedroom, it was easier for them to keep tidy. Because everything is organized in a way that makes sense to them, they do not have to think about where their things go anymore.

Let Your Child Decide What Sparks Joy for Him or Her

It can be so tempting to purge your child’s stuff yourself. If you just got in there while they are not looking, they would not have half as many items left and it would so much neater! They wouldn’t even notice those toys gone, right?

Wrong! They will absolutely notice something missing that they love. Just do not even try it! Our children are individuals, and though we do not always understand them, they love what they love. We have to let them decide what makes them happy and what does not.

My five-year-old has a pair of lime green shorts that I would burn if it were up to me. They are old and faded and, truthfully, the style seems to be from when I was little. One day, I put them in a charity bag while she was not looking, but later, I decided I should talk to her about it. She said she did not want to get rid of them. When I asked why, she answered, “They’re my mint-stealing shorts. I can put your mints into the little pockets on the front!” I laughed because she is constantly grabbing mints off of my desk and hiding them in those shorts. I find them and tickle her until her tummy hurts with laughter. To me, those shorts were worthless, but to her, they are a part of our fun and games. We simply never know what emotional attachment they have to things, so we should let them choose what to get rid of.

Tidy Up In Front of Your Children

There are many grown women who have no clue how to clean or organize. Why? Their parents never taught them. Often, they never even saw the cleaning done- it just happened somehow. Allowing your children to see you tidy up and, hopefully, getting them involved will not only instill the tidying habit but also have them ready to care for their own home.

It’s Okay to Purge Kids’ Artwork

I know it can seem like a huge betrayal to purge those beautiful pieces of art that your kids have created, but rest assured that it is not. Often, kids forget before long that they made it for you. Display new art for a while but then keep only certain ones. Some people take photos of the work and make it a digital photo album. I have a wall in my home where they are allowed to display their work for a time. We then decide together what we want to put away and what we can throw away. Making them part of the decision-making process will cut back on any drama.

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A Young Hero for Hens

Renee Yates

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Harriet, a 12-year-old from Chart Sutton, Kent, is making a difference in the lives of farm hens. Every Saturday morning, she volunteers with Fresh Start For Hens, a local charity dedicated to finding new homes for commercial egg-laying hens.

These hens, typically 72 weeks old, are often destined for slaughter when their egg production declines. However, Fresh Start For Hens buys them from farms and rehomes them as pets.

At collection points like the one in Aylesford, Harriet helps transfer over 100 hens from farms to their new owners. The charity ensures potential adopters provide suitable living conditions for the hens, requiring photos of coops and runs, along with a minimum donation of £2.75 per bird.

Many of these hens arrive in poor condition, sometimes even bald from stress-induced feather pecking. Harriet explains, “They get quite bored, so they peck each other and rip out their feathers.” Remarkably, after a few weeks in their new homes, most hens regain their feathers.

Harriet’s dedication earned her the BBC Young Reporter award. She hopes her story will inspire more farmers to choose rehoming over slaughter for their hens. As Harriet puts it, “It makes me feel proud that I can do something for these chickens, save their lives and give them to these happy families.”

The charity operates entirely on volunteer efforts. Petrina Thomas, who leads collection mornings, believes they’re all motivated by a simple principle: “the love of hens.”

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Social Media Miracle: Stranger’s Selfless Act Saves Baby’s Life

Renee Yates

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Amazing human kindness helped give a six-month-old girl named Helin Dinlera second chance at life. It’s all thanks to the generosity of a stranger who responded to an urgent online plea. Helin, diagnosed with a rare and life-threatening liver condition called Biliary Atresia, faced a grim prognosis without a liver transplant.

When no family members were found to be suitable donors, Helin’s mother, Anna Shushura, turned to social media in a desperate attempt to find help. Her emotional appeal caught the attention of Letty Fenlon, a 27-year-old show jumper from Yorkshire, who felt compelled to act.

Letty, already registered as an organ donor, underwent extensive testing and was confirmed as a match for Helin. Despite the risks associated with major surgery, Letty’s determination to help prevailed. In May, she underwent a six-hour procedure to donate a portion of her liver to the infant.

The transplant was successful, and now, at nine months old, Helin is thriving. While she still requires regular medical check-ups, her progress has been remarkable. Helin’s family expresses immense gratitude towards Letty, whose selfless act has given their daughter a chance at a normal life.

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Trust and Perseverance: The Remarkable Rescue of Lessie from the Boundary Waters

Shannon Jackson

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A heartwarming tale of survival and rescue has emerged from Minnesota’s Boundary Waters, where a German Shepherd named Lessie was found after being lost for 55 days. This story highlights the importance of trust-building and community effort in reuniting lost pets with their families.

Lessie’s ordeal began when she escaped following a car accident on the Gunflint Trail near Grand Marais in late June. The Retrievers, a non-profit organization dedicated to finding missing dogs, immediately mobilized to assist in the search.

After a month of uncertainty, hope was rekindled when Lessie was spotted near Ham Lake, miles from the accident site. A Minneapolis-based volunteer, familiar with the area, stepped up to help. Armed with guidance from The Retrievers and his previous experience, he set up camp to search for Lessie.

The volunteer’s patient approach proved crucial. Using food and a trail camera, he gradually gained Lessie’s trust over several days. His persistence paid off when he finally managed to leash Lessie and lead her to safety, facilitating an emotional reunion with her owners.

Jennifer Cadigan of The Retrievers emphasized the intelligence and resilience of dogs, noting that Lessie likely survived on discarded fish remains from nearby campsites. This remarkable story serves as an inspiring reminder to never lose hope when searching for a lost pet.

The successful rescue of Lessie after nearly two months in the wilderness underscores the effectiveness of combining community involvement, expert guidance, and unwavering determination in resolving missing pet cases.

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Freedom at Last: Charlie the Elephant Begins New Life After Four Decades in Captivity

Kelly Taylor

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A momentous event in South African wildlife conservation has unfolded with the release of Charlie, the country’s last zoo elephant, into a natural habitat after 40 years of confinement. This historic transition marks the end of an era for elephant captivity in South African zoos and represents a significant victory for animal welfare advocates.

Charlie’s journey began in 1984 when he was taken from Zimbabwe’s Hwange National Park as a two-year-old calf. His life in captivity included years of performing in a circus before being transferred to South Africa’s national zoo in the early 2000s. During his time at the zoo, Charlie reportedly experienced the loss of four fellow elephants, including his own offspring.

The push for Charlie’s release gained momentum in recent years as concerns about his well-being grew. Animal welfare organizations, including the EMS Foundation and Four Paws, played crucial roles in negotiating with the South African government and providing scientific evidence of the detrimental effects of captivity on elephants.

After a tense four-hour journey, Charlie arrived at his new home in the Shambala Private Reserve in Limpopo province. This 10,000-hectare sanctuary, known for its success in reintegrating animals into the wild, now hosts Charlie as he begins his rehabilitation process.

Veterinary and behavioral experts are closely monitoring Charlie’s adaptation to his new environment. Early signs are promising, with reports of Charlie showing excitement upon hearing other elephants and attempting to communicate with them. However, the rehabilitation process is expected to be gradual, allowing Charlie to rediscover his natural instincts and potentially integrate with the reserve’s existing elephant population.

This release not only signifies a new chapter for Charlie but also represents a broader shift towards improved animal welfare practices in South Africa. As the country continues to grapple with challenges facing its wild elephant population, including poaching and habitat loss, Charlie’s story serves as a reminder of the importance of conservation efforts and the ethical treatment of wildlife.

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Furry Friend Fuels Olympic Glory: Meet Beacon, the Therapy Dog Behind US Gymnastics Success

Renee Yates

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The US women’s gymnastics team’s triumphant return to Olympic gold in Paris 2024 may have an unexpected hero – a four-year-old golden retriever named Beacon. As part of USA Gymnastics’ enhanced focus on mental health, this therapy dog has become an integral part of the team’s preparation and support system.

Beacon’s journey with the gymnastics team began a year before the Olympics, offering comfort and stress relief to athletes during crucial moments, including the nerve-wracking Olympic trials in Minneapolis. His presence was particularly noted by all-around champion Sunisa Lee, who publicly expressed gratitude for Beacon’s calming influence.

The canine’s popularity has soared beyond the gymnastics world, earning him viral status on social media platforms and even a perfect score from popular dog-rating accounts. Beacon’s official credential, playfully labeling him the “Goodest Boy,” has become an iconic image associated with the team’s success.

Accompanied by his handler, former rhythmic gymnastics coach Tracey Callahan Molnar, Beacon has demonstrated an uncanny ability to sense and respond to stress among the athletes. His intuitive nature has made him an invaluable asset during high-pressure situations, such as the injury-plagued Olympic trials.

Beacon’s role extends beyond the world of elite gymnastics. When not supporting Olympic hopefuls, he provides therapy services at a local hospital in Pasadena, California. His predecessor, Tulsa, set the foundation for this important work during the challenging times of the pandemic.

This golden retriever’s personal life has also captured public interest. His likes (swimming and hiking) and dislikes (celery) are well-documented, and his Instagram account offers glimpses into his off-duty adventures, complete with costume changes and favorite toys.

As the US gymnastics team celebrates their Olympic success, Beacon’s contribution to their mental wellbeing and overall performance cannot be understated. His presence symbolizes a shift towards a more holistic approach to athlete care, addressing not just physical but also emotional needs in the high-stakes world of Olympic sports.

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