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There’s a Scientific Reason Behind Why You Shouldn’t Worry So Much About First Impressions

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Most people put a great deal of stock into first impressions. Whether you are going to a job interview, going on a first date, or the first day of school, you worry about the first impression that you make on others. After all, people say that first impressions are everything. The truth is, you shouldn’t worry too much about first impressions.

It’s All About The Way You Perceive The Situation

A group of scientists wanted to learn more about first impressions, so they conducted a study. During this study, they compared how the subjects viewed themselves in a social situation versus the way the people they met viewed them. The study found that many of the subjects thought that they made a horrible first impression when in reality, the participants liked one another after the first encounter.

Holding a Conversation

In today’s technological world, people are having traditional conversations less and less. Rather than having a conversation, people are sending text messages, direct messages, and emails. When it comes to first impressions, this is a problem. To make a good first impression, you need to be able to hold a conversation. During the study, researchers found that the more conversations the subjects had with one another, the more they liked each other. Asking questions, listening, and talking about yourself are all key to making a good first impression.

You Are Your Own Worst Enemy

By nature, we are harder on ourselves than we should be. As a defense mechanism, we prepare ourselves for a bad first impression. This is known as being a self-protecting pessimist. The study found that most of the participants were sure that they made a bad first impression, only to find out that it was all in their heads. The key to making a good first impression is to put all of your insecurities out of your mind and try to enjoy meeting new people.

Trying Too Hard

The one issue that many of the test subjects had was that they were trying too hard. This is a common problem when people are trying to make a good first impression. Talking too much was the most common problem for most of the subjects. People get nervous, and they tend to ramble on. If the subjects weren’t trying too hard to make a first impression, this wouldn’t have been an issue. Another common problem for the subjects was bragging. Some would try to make a good first impression by embellishing on their accomplishments in life. This doesn’t make a good first impression. Instead, it turns people off. If you put too much stock into making a good first impression and you try too hard, it will backfire on you.

The final result of the study showed that first impressions are more important to the individual rather than the people that they are meeting. If you are meeting someone for the first time and you are trying to make a good first impression, you should first understand this. The person you are meeting is also trying to make a good first impression on you. This should help you to relax a bit knowing that you aren’t the only one in the hot seat. The study performed proves that you shouldn’t worry so much about making a good first impression. The best way to make a good first impression is to relax, be yourself, and don’t put so much stock into what people think. Even if you make a poor first impression, you can always make a good second impression.

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Viral Pole Vaulting Sensation Allison Stokke, Where Is She Now?

Shannon Jackson

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A few years back, an amateur pole vaulting star named Allison Stokke would take the internet by storm. Thrust into the public spotlight, Stokke seemingly became an online superstar overnight. While it has been years since she has been in the public spotlight, you’ll still find her face among the most famous pole vaulting athletes on the planet. Today, we are going to turn back the clock in order to learn about Stokke during her fame as well as where she has been ever since!

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Nurses Unite to Bail Out Father In Trouble

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A near tragedy in an Illinois town was almost compounded by a police overreaction, but the quick thinking of a group of nurses saved the day and made everything turn out alright.

The story began in Centreville, a small town in the St. Louis metropolitan area.  On the evening of April 7, 2019, a one-year-old girl named Demani began to choke on a penny. She had put a penny inside her mouth, as children are wont to do, but accidentally swallowed it. The penny became lodged in her throat.  Her father, Darius Hinkle, and her mother, Donecia Pittman, who were with her at the time of the incident, were terrified for their daughter’s safety.  They put her in the car, and began to drive to the hospital. Naturally the mother comforted the choking child while the father drove.  Time was of the essence, so they drove very quickly.

Unfortunately, a police officer saw them driving towards the hospital. Unaware of their destination or the situation, the police officer went into pursuit of the speeding vehicle. Obviously the father did not stop to waste time explaining the situation, but  instead proceeded with all possible haste towards the medical center.  Before they had gone many miles the speeding car was being followed buy a long line of police cars with sirens flashing.  The father disregarded them and continued to the hospital, sometimes at speeds exceeding a hundred miles an hour.  The police kept pursuit.

Very little time passed until they reached their destination, Touchette Regional Hospital. The distressed parents tried to make contact with medical personnel and to inform them of their child’s dire predicament, but witnesses to the incident say that the police were almost entirely unconcerned with the well-being of the baby. Instead, the police forced the distressed parents to the ground, treating them with harshness and severity as they disregarded the choking infant. The father was arrested and taken away. The mother went in to see to her child.

The obstruction was removed from the child’s trachea without the necessity of surgical intervention. Once Demani was out of danger, Ms. Pittman went to bond out her partner. When she arrived she encountered the biggest surprise in an evening filled with surprises.   When Ms. Pittman stepped forward to speak to the desk clerk about paying the bail for Mr. Rucker, she was informed that the person immediately before her had already paid for it. That person was a nurse from the Touchette Regional. The nurses had seen the entire incident, including the man’s overwhelming concern for his daughter and the police officers’ complete indifference to the circumstances. They were moved to action by what they had witnessed.  The nurses took up a collection among themselves and volunteered to pay the man’s bond.

Although Mr. Rucker still faces criminal charges for this incident, and he will still have to appear in court and plead his case, the touching faith that the nurses showed in him has gathered national attention. The story has become an example of how human beings can support each other in the face of injustice. Contributions have been made to the man’s legal defense and to reimburse the nurses for their time and trouble. One can only hope that the police have read this story as well and found in it an example for better behavior.

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Friendship Is Worth More Than Anything Else

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Most people consider themselves lucky when they are able to find one good friend. In the case of one homeless Brazilian man, his cup of fortune overflows as he has four loyal companions all willing to stand by his side through thick and thin. When Caesar a homeless gentleman found himself in need of emergency services to help manage a pre-existing condition at 3 a.m. on a Sunday, he was accompanied by four of his most faithful companions.

We Will Stand By You

For whatever reason Caesar did not go to the hospital that normally sees him for his pre-existing condition. Caesar chose to seek help at Regional Alte Valo Hospital in Rio do Sul, Brasil. While Caesar was receiving the medical attention he needed something magical what’s happening outside of the doors at the hospital. Caesar’s four companions were capturing the hearts of the people in the waiting room as well as members of the hospital staff. Caesar’s buddies were teaching everyone who witnessed their display of love and affection a very valuable lesson. The lesson they taught was, friends can come in all shapes, sizes, colors and even species. Loyalty knows no bounds and the four dogs who sat outside the doors of the hospital patiently awaiting the return of their beloved companion Caesar, was truly a heartwarming experience for all those who witnessed their display of love.

I Will Do Anything For You

In a world where it seems like it’s everyone for him or herself, it was hard for visitors and staff at the hospital to believe this homeless man and these four dogs could have such a strong bond with each other. Even more amazing was the fact that all four dogs appeared healthy and in good condition. The dogs had shiny coats, no evidence of injuries and appeared happy, friendly, well adjusted and well trained. It was more than obvious that Caesar spent a lot of time with his furry companions teaching them how to behave and how not to be aggressive. It was all clear that Caesar made sure his dogs were well-fed even if that meant skipping meals himself so that they could eat. The love, selflessness, and kindness Caesar shows his dogs it’s not only admirable but an overwhelming display of human kindness.

Motivated Into Action

As Hospital staff continued to observe the close bond and dedication Caesar’s four companions had to making sure he was being taken care of and was going to be okay, they were motivated into action. The hospital workers allowed all four of Caesar’s companions to come in and visit him so that they could check on him themselves. All who witnessed the reunion between Caesar and his dogs were treated to yet another act of selflessness and kindness.Hospital workers brought Ceasar a sandwich during the dog’s visit. Instead of eating the sandwich himself, Caesar without a second thought make sure he gave each of the dogs a portion of his sandwich so they could have something to eat. Hospital staff could hardly believe what they were seeing, as clearly Caesar needed that sandwich to help get his strength back, yet he chose to share it with his dogs. Caesar and his dogs are living proof that love and friendship is worth more than all of the riches the World has to offer.

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The Most Amazing Cat Pictures

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It is a common belief that cats do not get along with dogs and other creatures. Contrary to popular opinion, however, cats really can get along with anyone- even their so-called natural born enemies! These pictures are all about spreading the love. Maybe humans can learn a little something from this display of unconditional love? Maybe we can really can all learn to get along.

Both furry and cuddly, these two pals are going to burrow in the rug together and keep each other warm. Cold weather is always better with a pal.

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North Carolina Teen Bitten by Shark, Unassailed

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Paige Winter, 17, was swimming at Atlantic Beach in North Carolina with her sister when she was pulled under in waist-high water. It quickly became clear that it was a shark attack. 

Paige initially gave in, perhaps initially not realizing that it was a shark. She’d thought it was a turtle. When she realized what was happening, she fought back hard. It is that tenacity and courage that has continued to aid her in her survival and recovery. She just would not give up. 

Paige’s Rescue 

Witnesses reported screaming and panic. Paige’s father, Charlie, is a paramedic, so he immediately jumped to her rescue. He dove underwater and punched at the shark until he was able to wrestle her free from the shark and carry her to the beach. A bystander offered a belt, which her father used as a tourniquet to stop the bleeding on the beach. 

Paige was quickly transported via medical helicopter to Vidant Medical Center in Greenville, where her leg was amputated. She underwent additional surgeries for his leg, pelvis, and hand.  

No parent ever would dream of seeing their child being dragged underwater by a shark, but her father’s quick actions saved Paige’s life. Then, bystanders and emergency medical personnel were a part of the rescue, as well as doctors and surgeons who worked to save Paige’s life.  

Next Steps

What lies ahead for Paige is recovery and rehabilitation as she learns to walk again with a prosthetic limb. She must also re-learn how to function with more limited functionality in her hands. 

Paige’s resilience is clear, though, despite the severe injuries she sustained, and the body altering surgeries. She remains positive and in good spirits. Her family says that she was groggy but already telling jokes when she first woke up after the shark attack in the hospital. Her continued road to recovery won’t be easy, but her will to live and overcome the odds has already gotten her this far. 

Doctors and also her father mentioned the serendipitous collision of chance encounters and dumb luck that both brought her to the beach that day but also saved her life. When so much could have gone horribly, impossibly wrong, enough separate events went right that she will someday walk again.

Paige survived. It’s not all the “pieces of the puzzle.” Some are missing, as she told Washington Post, but “it’s okay.” She still advocates for marine life and doesn’t blame the shark for biting her and shaking her like that. Her message is about education, learning more about sharks and understanding.

Spunky as ever, Paige told the medic, “Don’t be mad. Sharks are good people.” That positive attitude and that willingness to forgive even in the face of a savage attack is part of what has made her story a viral sensation across media spheres. 

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